My Better Day newsletter contains tips for your yoga practice, yoga quotes to bring yoga off the mat and into your life, affirmations to brighten your day and motivate, and more! It is my wish for your well-being that I send this newsletter to help make your day a Better Day!
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In this issue: Yoga quote, Practice yoga pose, Meditation on the go, Chakrascope, Hand Mudra, Healthy News, Featured Recipe, Favorite Yoga Music / DVD, Happenings at Better Day Yoga LLC, Final Relaxation Quote.
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Growing up, my favorite magic portal was behind the big mirrored dresser in my bedroom. For a time, it was at an angle in the corner, creating a magical space behind the dresser to be out of sight, dream, doodle, pray, and just be. Id relish the awe-inspiring trinkets I had placed in a whimsical, Folgers coffee can. My can had a pink elephant on it and that touched my whimsy and made me smile (http://www.flickr.com/photos/neatocoolville/366368942/lightbox/). I cant remember what was in the can, but I will always remember that can! Entry into my magic corner was through the opening between the dresser where the seat usually stayed. When no one was looking, Id crawl underneath the large round mirror and let the magic begin! It was my own little world, my own corner, my own magic.
Where was your magic portal? The fort you made with blankets? A walk-in closet? Under the bed? A quiet place in the nearby woods? Perhaps it was a magical attic? (Ahhhh, but my regular readers know I have my own magic attic at Krista Artistas Gallery where I teach Thursday evenings asked and answered as to just why this is one of my favorite places. The awe-inspiring trinkets are in this wonderful, whimsical store. The Pied Piper couldnt have done a better job than Krista has in creating a place to draw you in. Needing some magical trinkets of your own? Inquire within Krista Artistas!)
Why do you think children like to make forts? Why do you think adults remember them fondly? Come on, secretly you still wish for that kind of place to retreat to, dont you? Perhaps youve already created one. Do we ever really grow up in the sense that we no longer desire feelings of awe? Are we ever really too old to wonder?
We do not quit playing because we grow old; we grow old because we quit playing. ~ Oliver Wendell Holmes.
Dont let an old person move into your body. ~ Jim Donovan.
If you let go of the desire for awe, please excuse me as I let out a gasp of dismay for you. I guarantee you still feel a magical calling whenever your brand of whimsy presents itself. You may not know just why you enjoyed reading the Harry Potter series, or just why a trip to Disneyland still excites youalbeit for the kids, of course. What is it about the sparkles of firecrackers that turn even the sternest among us into a giggling child? Come ontheres at least one holiday tradition that you cant live without during the winter months, isnt there? Why is that? Its knowing your props, your triggers, that help you create your magic inside. Its still there you knowyour belief in magic.
When was the last time you had a conversation with the moon? Or made a wish on a falling star? Held hope from a string of delicate things. When was the last time you got lost in an enchanted wood? ~ A Knock at the door by Angi Sullins and Silas Toball of Duirwaigh, Inc.
Elves have been known to live in the roots of trees
Gooseberry Falls, MN
We all want to clap when asked if we believe in fairies because it would be so very cool if they existed. Forget about what you currently deem possible to believe. Let that go for the moment. Can you at least admit how very cool it would be? First, let the idea of possibility inthen the magic will feel welcome to manifest.
For the world is full of zanies and fools who don’t believe in sensible rules and won’t believe what sensible people say. And because these daft and dewey-eyed dopes keep building up impossible hopes impossible things are happening every day! It’s Possible! ~ Rodgers And Hammerstein Lyrics “ Impossible “
Do you believe in fairies? If you believe clap your hands. ~ from Peter Pan by James M. Barrie
You may laugh at the mere mention of believing, but its in the believing that the magic is allowed to enter. Are you too old to believe? Do you believe magic is only for the young? I guess you get what you believe, then, dont you?
I’m not young enough to know everything. ~ James M. Barrie
Why is it so much easier to accept the concept of belief allowing creation to make itself manifest when its used in business?
Whether you think that you can, or that you can’t, you are usually right. ~ Henry Ford
Why not simply be curious enough to know you dont know everything and believe anythings possible?
Youll see it when you believe it. ~ Dr. Wayne W. Dyer
There is nothing that cannot happen today. ~ Mark Twain
There are numerous magic mirror portals featured in books and movies. Perhaps I shouldnt be surprised mine was behind a mirror. There are also numerous uses of cloaks, capes, garments, and jewelry to create their own magicbe it a disappearing act, or a presto change-o character-switch to one with more power. Try listening to this song without crying and nodding in approval It’s about a boy and his magic cape.
He’s one of those who knows that life is just a leap of faith. Spread your arms and hold your breath, and always trust your cape ~ Eric Bibb
What is your particular brand of magic? How easily do you open up to it? If you keep putting up walls to something energetically, it will stop trying to reach you. Release to it. Quit fighting it. Why not believe in magic? Why not believe wishes can be made on stars and fairies are always there when you look for them? There are those who believe that magic happens to the extent and in the form youll most accept. Sounds like a good tactic. What are you open to?
We call them faerie. We don’t believe in them. Our loss. ~ Charles de Lint
Many people don’t believe in faeries, but if you look real close they’re always there. ~ Torlila
Perhaps all you need are some props like you had as a child. What is a childs fort if not an adults ice house, tent, cabin, fishing boat, garden or meditation corner? Maybe the garden is your favorite place because you sense the quiet energy there, and it feeds your spirit. Maybe the workshop in the garage relaxes you because youre allowed to create whatever you want, whenever you want. Theres magic in energy, in creating, in being in a relaxed space where you are open to receive. Theres magic in imagining.
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Original & Inspirational Art by artist Valentina Ramos
It can be as simple as a magic carpet My husband and I make it a ritual to hug each morning on the carpet by the sink as the water brews for the coffee. I started calling it our magic carpet. Pretty soon, whenever I wanted to conjure up a magical moment, Id step on that magic carpet with an expectant gaze; and obligingly, my husband would provide the missing ingredienta hug. Theres absolutely no place else Id rather be. Before you start to smirk, may I counter by reminding you that my magic is mineand believe me, hugging my husband of almost 29 years with a romance that grows every single day is magic. Defining the carpet as our spot to let the magic in and release to it is our brand of magic. Whats yours? What can you use as your prop?
Once in awhile, right in the middle of an ordinary life, love gives us a fairy tale. ~ Author Unknown
Foolish, you say? Do you think we actually need the carpet to hug? Of course not! But do you think having the carpet as the instigator helps create the magic? The answer is a resounding yes! A batch of playfulness helps as well. Laughter attracts magic in countless ways.
Why is a prop to create your own magic any different than a prop used in plays or movies to create a more believable scene? If it helps you believe, it helps create the magic, right? Think about it. What is the definition of a placebo if not the deep belief that youre able to heal with it? This generates the pharmaceuticals needed by your body to heal. It isnt a hoax its a healing. Those that say its all in your mind like its a bad thing arent getting it. Are they? Yes! It is all in your mind! Your mind is where the healing begins! Your mind is also where the magic begins!
only as long as you do not understand, is it a secret. And, indeed, do not all mysteries and miracles only appear so, in so far as we may not understand how they arise or occur? ~Yoga Nidra: A Meditative Practice for Deep Relaxation and Healing, by Richard Miller.
One of my friends sent me a fairy door for Christmas. Yes, you heard mea fairy door. Its an immediate whimsy-instigator. A fairy door (a magic portal to the world of the wee folk) All I have to do is look at it and know like I know like I know theres something magical waiting to make its presence known, one of these times, when I open that door. Theres magic in expecting.
Attached to the fairy door is a note which reads: Im just a simple Fairy Door. No promises I make. But if in fact a Fairy comes, shell know this is her place. Inside it says Fair Door Enchantment Ideas: Hide small trinkets and treasures like a shell, feather, shiny stone or pennies in your Fairy Door to encourage Fairies and imagination. Fairy Doors are usually placed in an out of sight or secret place. Now, doesnt that describe to a T my magic portal behind the mirrored dresserright down to the trinkets and treasures? And doesnt that totally substantiate my suggestion to let the magic know when and where it is welcome?
Here are some suggestions from last years March newsletter for allowing magic in:
So are you open to viewing the world a bit outside the box to allow for some magic? Here are some ways to open to the magic, straight from Ted Andrews Enchantment of the Faerie Realm book:
Laughter is always an open invitation. Wherever stories are being told, those of this realm will usually gather to listen. Simple and sincere music and song are always attractive to those of this realm. These joyful spirits will often gather where children play and in any area in which nature is allowed to grow freeeven if only a small section within your own back yard. Wherever there is ceremony, joy and color, these beings will be found. And a partial list to add to those not covered above to invite their presence into your life:
Ive also read that practicing meditation and yoga weekly, daily if you can, to boost your spirituality and enhance your mind is another way to prepare for the magic. Practicing outside so you can be one with nature is even better.
To all unbelievers still reading, please re-read the list above. At the very least youll have spent time outside, added meditative moments to your life, created something you enjoy, added friends and spread smiles through your generosity, and giggled more than you used to. If that isnt creating magic in your own life, I dont know what is. So whats so bad about that?
(Full disclosure: Revisit last years March post which documents my own fairy sighting enough said.)
Start a Coincidence Journal documenting lucky opportunities and watch the magic multiply! Once youve starting writing down your idea of synchronicity, youll seethe magic will feel welcome and know youre open to more. Who doesnt blossom when theyre noticed? http://stress.about.com/od/journaling/a/coincidence.htm
Still not sure what your particular brand of magic is? When was the last time you went some place for a couple of hours just to be there? THAT is your answer! And if you havent experienced wanting to go somewhere just to be there for a couple of hours, then perhaps try slowing your life down a bit once in awhile to let stillness in.
Where magic is concerned, there is always an initial decision, an initial willingness to let it enter your life. If that is not there neither is magic. ~ Neil Gaiman
Those who don’t believe in magic will never find it. ~ Roald Dahl
That’s the thing with magic. You’ve got to know it’s still here, all around us, or it just stays invisible for you. ~ Charles de Lint
If you do not believe in magic, your life will not be magical. Magic, like the power of Stonehenge, is part of the unknowablethat which you cannot describe, but which exists and makes your life extraordinary. The Power Deck, The Cards of Wisdom, by Lynn V. Andrews.
Now I ask youdo you think a child was able to create the fairy door gift I received, market it, and sell it? Or do you think there are some in the know grown-ups out there who believe in the magic? Remember a grown-up bought it and gave it to me although jurys out as to whether Im growing up. Think that fairy tales are for the naïve and foolish and not for intelligent people?
If you want your children to be intelligent, read them fairy tales. If you want them to be more intelligent, read them more fairy tales. ~ Albert Einstein
You decide which type of adult you want to bethe kind that doesnt let the magic in, or the type that fosters it every chance they can get! Dont worry if youre already grown-up and didnt have the opportunity to indulge in fairy tales as a child. Theres still time!
Its never too late to have a happy childhood. ~ Tom Robbins
Some day you will be old enough to start reading fairy tales again. ~ C. S. Lewis
Look at your life through the eyes of the child you used to befull of wonder and curiosity and unscathed by preconceived notions. Daily routines and stress can squeeze the spontaneity right out of you. Keeping your nose to the grindstone and never looking up to notice the subtleties of life will choke your inner childs magic.
Was there a movie, play, or song you enjoyed as a child that made you feel that anythingeven magicwas possible? Perhaps it was a place, or a costume. (For more on the magic of costumes and other outward props, take a peek at my October 20ll newsletter). Perhaps there’s a magical character you loved as a child? They’re still waiting!
Statue of Merlin in Sedona, AZ
Revisit past joys. I cant watch The Lion King, Darby O Gill and the Little People, Miracle on 34th Street, Brigadoon, The Wizard of Oz, or Cinderella without letting the magic in; and I cant go for a swing in the park with eyes closed and not feel like the world is my oyster!
Image Credit: Aimee Stewart of Duirwaigh, Inc.
So gather your particular brand of props, and realign your beliefs to allow for possibility. Just approach the idea for now if it seems a bit over the top. First you have to approach, then you allow, then you believe; and suddenly, you wont remember why you didnt believe your whole life. Magic? youll ask. Why of course I believe in magic, its only logical, isnt it?
If at first, the idea is not absurd, then there is no hope for it. ~Albert Einstein
Logic only gives man what he needs Magic gives him what he wants. ~ Tom Robbins
Science is a way of talking about the universe in words that bind it to a common reality. Magic is a method of talking to the universe in words that it cannot ignore. ~ Neil Gaiman
Reach for the stars!
Image Credit: Author Gilles Tran & Jaime Vives Piqueres
Since I opened with sharing my favorite magic portal as a child, I decided this was the perfect time to share my favorite magic portal as yoga teacher. Savasana is one of the most important poses in your yoga practice and it is often said that this is where the “magic” happens. This is the high point of your class where your body integrates all the work it’s done, integrating the healing benefits of your practice.
We so rarely take the time to be still, yet our nervous system requires stillness to heal and to run efficiently. I mentioned earlier that being open to receive is the first step to allow magic into your life. Final Relaxation / Savasana is the ultimate time to “be open” to the magic.
You experience a deep sense of release, contentment, rejuvenation, and—as the name implies—relaxation during Savasana. (Wish your final relaxations were a whole lot longer? You might like to try “Yoga Nidra” or “Yogic Sleep”. To experience an even deeper, more profound relaxation; check out my “Meditation On The Go” section below for more information.)
Yoga connects breath with movement, making it a moving meditation with the body. When you have completed your usual 60-75 minute Yoga class, and settle into final relaxation, your body is more ready for a total relaxation and more receptive to guided imagery and positive affirmations. Your body has been prepped to receive and is open to suggestion—open to the magic of healing. I typically offer a short meditation during final relaxation for this very reason, and end with a few minutes of total silence. Many of the meditations, affirmations, and guided imageries I use have been in my newsletters.
We don’t need to go into the research here documenting the power of the mind to heal the body, but suffice to say when we don’t use the power of our minds to improve the health and well-being of our bodies, we are negating the best partner on our health team—ourselves.
The August 2010 issue of Yoga Magazine had a great article on hypnosis http://www.yogamagazine.co.uk/. I remembered thinking at first, what does Yoga have to do with hypnosis? Then I remembered that Yoga is a somatic therapy using mind, body and breath. “Anything you do can be done better if you are relaxed. Sensory Awareness is the key to all Mind-Body methods. Mind-Body methods are practices that promote good health and enhance the quality of life.” The Mind-Body Connection, Linda-Christy Wiler, M.S. I can’t think of a better way to describe the benefits of Yoga.
“Hypnosis is a natural state of heightened awareness where you are using more of your mind than you usually do. The average person uses about 10% of his brain at any present moment. Hypnosis lets us relax and use 100% of our mind to create habits, positive affirmations and change behaviors with the help of the subconscious mind.” http://hyp-yoga.com/index.html.
I ran across the yoga/hypnosis connection again in an article from Yoga Journal magazine that highlighted Hyp-Yoga, the Web-site mentioned above, http://www.yogajournal.com/for_teachers/2772. “Employing the use of visualization and commands, Hyp-Yoga helps students change their mental state, bringing about focus, clarity, and calm. It can be used for an entire sequence, but the benefits are greatest in Savasana (Final Relaxation).”
Ah! There’s that connection with final relaxation and the mind being prepped to do more when it’s in a state of relaxation! “Proponents of Hyp-Yoga believe it has the power to bring students into a trance-like state of heightened focus that is similar to states of consciousness during deep levels of meditation. This increased ability to concentrate is the result of elevated levels of gamma brain waves. Gamma brain waves are thought to be responsible for that ‘dropped in’ feeling advanced meditation brings about. According to a study by the Boston University School of Medicine, experienced yoga practitioners can help elevate gamma brain waves during a yoga session, and Hyp-Yoga techniques specifically trigger that state.”
Important note: Final relaxation pose should be at the end of both your hatha yoga practice and your pranayama/ breathwork practices. You should be in final relaxation at least five minutes for every hour of yoga practice. Never ever skimp on savasana!
Alignment Cues: Prior to settling into the pose, it’s a good idea to cover yourself with a blanket and perhaps add some socks if you think you may get cold. Lie on your back, legs extended. Keep your neck and shoulders relaxed with the spine in one long, straight line. Turn your palms upward to the ceiling and allow the hands to move further away from the body than usual. Allow your feet to roll open. Let your breath relax and continue to release stress and tension in this pose, quieting the mind, relaxing completely, staying in the present moment. Let everything relax and let go.
For a deeper pose: I have never tried this, but it sounds luscious. It reminds me of the practice of using a weighted blanket to calm anxiety in people of all ages:
“To help release the brain and quiet the mind in Savasana, take a block and a 10-pound sand bag. After reclining on the floor, position the block on the floor above your head. The block should sit on one of its sides (the height of the block should be about 5 inches), with one of its ends lightly touching your crown. Then lay the sand bag half on the block and half on your forehead. Scrub the forehead skin down, toward your eyebrows. Then let the brain sink away from this weight.”
(Not Shown) (http://www.yogajournal.com/poses/482
Add a prop:
Contraindicated for pregnancy: Raise your head and chest on a bolster or set of bolsters.
Variation: (Face Down / Relaxed Crocodile) This variation was introduced to me as a good option for those who might be experiencing Post-Traumatic Stress Syndrome. The vulnerability of an open chest may be too much for some.
This option would be offered as an “either / or” option. It’s not for everyone—especially if you are experiencing low back issues, and obviously if you are pregnant!
Start by lying face-down on your belly, and slightly spread the legs with toes turned out. With elbows bent, rest your forehead on the backs of your wrists.
You could also try having one cheek to the mat and changing to the other cheek around the half-way point. Then your hands would be either straight behind you, palms down; or one elbow bent and hand placed by the face on the side your cheek rests if your neck is tight. (Not Shown) (I often use the check side down version as a neutral pose after a back-bend series.)
Having your abdomen restricted by the floor, lets you play with breathwork using your chest, diaphragm and lower belly. You’ll more noticeably experience the rise and fall of your hips and lower back as your breath gently prompts the movement.
As the instructor, it can be nurturing to gently rock your student*. The rocking motion is very therapeutic. It’s not just for children! Rocking increases oxygen delivery to the cells and increases lymphatic circulation, increasing overall health, energy and alertness: http://www.floatingbed.com/features-benefits/medical-research
* If students are laying belly-down on the floor, I always ask them to let me know if their neck is tight and they don’t want me to rock them.
Spiritual aspects of final relaxation pose: As outlined in the opening paragraphs of this section, this pose promotes the healing magic of the mind through the use of affirmations, creative visualization, and guided imagery. Savasana takes us to the still point in ourselves, where we can reconnect with the sacred by encountering the endless possibilities that emanate from your center.
“Relax into your wellness. Take good care of yourself and take all your hopes and dreams to heart. They carry the seeds of your destiny”. ~ Yoga path Cards by Susan Woldman
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One of the many benefits of Yoga is reduced stress and a relaxed and clear mind. Read on as I highlight unique ways to use Yoga for stress relief and relaxation! The antidote to stress is relaxation. To relax is to rest deeply. This rest is different from sleep. Common to all stress reduction techniques is putting the body in a comfortable position, with gentle attention directed toward the breath. Relax and Renew, Judith Lasater, PhD, PT http://www.rodmellpress.com/relax.html. This is a wonderful book on restorative yoga. Lets take that a little deeper.
In both of my last two intensive four-day trainings with YogaFit® on Restorative Yoga and Yoga Therapy, Yoga Nidra was discussed and we were able to experience a couple of Yoga Nidra sessions. Richard Miller, PhD, aptly explains that reading about Yoga Nidra is a bit like reading a description of sugar before youve ever tasted such a treat. ~ Yoga Nidra, The Meditative Heart of Yoga, by Richard Miller, PhD. So if you like what youre reading here, youre going to love actually experiencing a Yoga Nidra!
Dr. Miller equates Yoga Nidra to that timeframe between sleep and awake where we wake up naturally in a state of profound relaxation. We can all access this deep state any time of day by taking the time for Yoga Nidra. It induces a profound relaxation in the body and mind, eliminates stress, overcomes insomnia, solves personal and interpersonal problems, resolves trauma and neutralizes and overcomes anxiety, fear, anger, and depression.
Yoga Nidra helps burn away negative patterns of conditioning. While experiencing a Yoga Nidra session, we are unaware of the stress, tension, and conflict that we experience during our waking state. We experience a profound sense of contentment and equanimity. The practice of Yoga Nidra teaches you how to consciously live in and as this Natural State of equanimity even as you go about daily life. Yoga Nidra, The Meditative Heart of Yoga, by Richard Miller. I want some of that dont you?!
While this is not hypnosis, it has similarities in that while you are in a profound state of receptive relaxation, you remain totally aware and alert throughout the process.
To experience a taste of Yoga Nidra, heres a couple of links:
The actual length of a Yoga Nidra can be longer than this onethe ones I experienced were 30-40 minutes of glorious relaxation. Yoga Nidra can be performed in a matter of seconds, a few minutes, or it can be an in-depth practice lasting an hour or more.
Try this one if you have more time:
Richard Miller is known as the granddaddy of Yoga Nidra and his wonderful Web-site is: http://www.irest.us/. To listen to a short excerpt from Richard Miller, heres a link:
Julie Lusk also has a wonderful newsletter with excellent ways to relax during your day as well as has her own Yoga Nidra CD, Real Relaxation, which I highlight in this newsletters featured CD: http://www.wholesomeresources.com/buy_shop_books_CD.htm.
I learned in both YogaFit® trainings that it takes the body a full eight minutes to even be ready to relax. Did you get that? Eight minutes for the parasympathetic nervous system to kick in and start to do its healing work on the body. That was one of the key points in the Yoga Nidra training. How many of us take eight minutes to prepare to relax, let alone take eight minutes to relax? Even a typical final relaxation at the end of a Yoga class isnt that long. (See the Yoga Pose featured this month for more on final relaxation.)
Restorative Yoga, Yoga Nidra, and Hyp-Yoga during final relaxation (see the pose featured this month) provide wonderful ways to use the power of Yoga to enhance your well-being and promote relaxation and stress-relief. I plan to incorporate more of these practices into my yoga classes and offerings!
If you found the above interesting, please consider taking my meditation how to classes. Visit my Web-site, www.betterdayyoga.com, for details.
If you are familiar with chakras, then you can tell from my logo that I love chakras. The rainbow-colored spheres within my logo are representative of the chakra system within the body.
If you are unfamiliar, here’s a quick lesson: There are seven energy centers called chakras (literally “wheels”) that store energy/life force/prana. They are along the spinal column and correlate to major nerve ganglia branching forth from the spinal column. Each has a different relationship to a gland in the body’s endocrine system. Each stimulates different organs and systems in the body. Hatha Yoga activates these energy centers releasing the energy that flows through the spine. Yoga helps these energy centers/nerve bundles to function correctly clearing blocks that may be there. Each chakra also is associated with a mental/emotional focus. In each newsletter I’ll highlight how you can work with a particular chakra to correspond with the season.
Working with the brow chakra opens the mind to the divine and the spiritual—sounds like a magic portal to me, doesn’t it to you? Since magic portals have been the theme for this newsletter, the third eye chakra is where it’s at!
As a matter of fact, the suggestion to be out in nature to connect to the magical realm is also recommended to open the brow chakra—another indicator it’s the chakra to lead the way to your own inner magic portal. And if you are short on time for a full fledged trip outdoors, remember you can always try a yoga nidra or other meditation CD that has nature sounds mixed in to find your peace and solitude for working with this chakra. (See the Featured CD, “Meditation On The Go”, and Healthy News sections for more on yoga nidra!)
Final relaxation / Savasana and yoga nidra were both indicated as being good times to introduce positive affirmations and guided visualizations to introduce healthy changes and attitudes into your life. As you work on balancing the brow chakra, your ability to change the way you view your life and your purpose are strengthened as well. So there’s a great place to start work on your third eye chakra! Create an affirmation!
Remember, affirmations are positive statements written in the present tense. They help you to focus on various goals and intentions of your choosing. You can repeat them aloud or silently within, write them down, or record them and listen to them. Try several ways! “When a mantra is spoken out loud, it primarily benefits the physical body. When it’s whispered, it benefits our mental/emotional nature. Our spiritual nature benefits from silent repetition.” ~ Julie Lusk at http://wholesomeresources.com/1849/how-to-do-the-sa-ta-na-ma-meditation-to-improve-memory/
“Make Your Own Mantra
Positive thinking exercises, like affirmative self-talk, suppresses the release of cortisol from the adrenal glands. And that can help you feel calm and peaceful. So when negative thoughts crop up, imagine a big stop sign in your head, and tell yourself, “Stop!” Then, replace the downer thought with a positive, soothing message. Think of what it is you wish were true, and then state it over and over, as if it were true. Here are some examples of positive thinking that can help you feel empowered and ready to face the day:
When you feel overwhelmed, think, ‘I trust in the process of life.’”
Speaking of magical portals—if I could share with you a magical time to create and write your affirmations to give them more energy, would you be “in”? I knew you would be! Write them during the new moon each month. (http://www.timeanddate.com/calendar/moonphases.html) Now don’t roll your eyes here! Your agriculturally minded ancestors have planted during the new moon for “many moons”—pun intended! They have come to know this as a time for new beginnings, so get on board! This book gives a whole new meaning to the phrase “moontime”!
I learned of this magic moment each month from a great book filled with affirmations, among other things, by Jan Spiller: NEW MOON ASTROLOGY: Using New Moon Power Days To Change and Revitalize Your Life:
“The Moon’s influence on human destiny has been recognized since ancient times, but its potential for generating positive outcomes has often been ignored – until now. In this breakthrough book, astrologer Jan Spiller reveals the secrets of harnessing the Moon’s astonishing power to make your goals a reality!
Not just another astrology book, New Moon Astrology provides practical, step-by-step instructions, based on ancient rites and philosophy as well as Jan Spiller’s own vast astrological experience, in framing your wishes in any area- love, career, family, or health.
On New Moon Power Days, your desires become incantations with amazing focus and strength. Using the special Moon chart included here, you’ll be able to express your wishes during a “magic” moment – a personal power period in the astrological cycle – setting forces in motion that transform your desires into reality. To have your Granddaddy Power Period calculated for you, free of charge, click here.” https://www.janspiller.com/books.php (You can also go to the site to purchase the book.)
This chakra is considered the chakra of intuition—your third eye. Do you feel intuitive? If not, why not? Similar to being open to the magic so that it feels welcome, you need to feel open to your intuition for it to develop within. We are all intuitive! But like the proverbial child’s gift—some assembly is required! Namely—accepting your intuition. Know that you know what you know. This chakra is about distilling the wisdom you’ve acquired and accepting it.
My opening section on magical portals referenced the influence of fairy tales to promote magical moments—and intelligence (remember the quote from Einstein!). The third chakra is stimulated by letting your imagination soar. So “Read fairy tales and mythology, try to visualize crazy things, or, better yet, write a short story of your own. Everything that promotes your fantasy life also awakens your forehead chakra.” A Handbook of Chakra Healing, Spiritual Practice for Health, Harmony and Inner Peace by Kalashatra Govinda.
Again, time alone spent in yoga nidra, meditation, and—of course, yoga—will foster a healthy environment for your intuition to flourish. I can only tell you from experience that when I have been following a regimen of consistent meditative time, my intuition doesn’t hesitate to make its presence known! We are all intuitive, regardless—but why not help things along by destressing, relaxing, and adding meditative moments?
I have to share an example here. A few months ago as I was working on one of my newsletters, I was looking for one of my stray reference books to quote. As is the case many times, I couldn’t remember where I’d last placed the book. I scoured my yoga bookshelves to no avail—yes I have specific shelves for my prized possessions—there’s shelves in another room for health & nutrition, intuition, self-help, Reiki….need I go on?
Today I was in a bit of a hurry and getting frustrated, so I sent out a request to the Universe to please let me find it sooner rather than later. Suddenly as I was stooped down looking, a flash came across my mind that it was next to our Amish rocking chair by the fireplace, on the floor, in the pile that inevitably forms there. I kid you not! Guess where I found it? Too cool! You may think that I simply “remembered” it, but trust me—this was after several attempts to “remember” and directly after my sending out the request. This “request technique” works the best for me when I’ve been meditating regularly. It’s one of the awesome side benefits of meditating—you make friends with your third eye chakra!
Unfortunately, in today’s day and age, we barely take the time to read a full sentence, let alone take time to be still for any length. Note to self—wouldn’t you like to make an ally of your third-eye chakra, with your intuition? Sudden and sometimes profound insights and moments of inspiration should be the norm, not the anomaly. Your intuition is like a muscle—if you don’t use it, you’ll lose it!
I had recommended a “coincidence journal” in the opening section for ways to show recognition of your magical moments, thus inviting more of them to make themselves known. Recognition of these moments invariably makes them multiply! The same goes for your intuition. You may be relegating your intuitive moments to “coincidence”. When you start writing them down, you’ll realize how consistent they can be with a little attention. http://stress.about.com/od/journaling/a/coincidence.htm.
Another suggestion would be to keep a dream journal. Write down your dreams just after waking up. My regular readers know I’ve referenced the “magical time” between sleep and awake often! This is how I came to name my business “Better Day Yoga”. Similar to the coincidence journal, and my advice to start noticing your magical moments, the more you ponder your dreams, the more clear and intense they become.
One of my favorite authors and quotable scholars in my yoga classes is Donna Eden. In her excellent book called Energy Medicine, she recommends the following exercise to work with your third eye:
Very simple exercise to begin opening your third eye
Place your middle finger at the bridge of the nose and push up a couple of inches, breathing deeply and imagining that you are opening the eye lid. Light moves up, from your root chakra, through the second, third, fourth, and fifth chakras, and if you are open, it bends at the sixth chakra and shoots straight out of your third eye. Some people experience it literally as a light or a laser beam. Others experience it more as a feeling. Even if you simply pretend to sense this light, imagine it moving up your spine from the root chakra to your sixth chakra (the third-eye chakra), and feel the light bend and shoot out like a laser from your third eye.
I’m excited to find this exercise as I’ve been doing her “Hook-Up” exercise as part of my “daily energy routine”, and it involves a similar move with the third eye. The sensation I feel with the “Hook-up” is more explained by the sensation she describes above. Cool!
Now I can’t give you a teaser like the above paragraph and not explain the “Hook-Up” exercise, can I? Don’t worry! Here’s an excerpt from her awesome book:
“The Hook-Up” is “great to do anytime your energies are feeling a bit ‘off’:
1. The Hook-Up creates a connection between your central meridian (which sends energy up the front of your body) and the governing meridian (which sends energy up your spine), bridging the energies between the front and back of your body and between your head and torso.
2. It strengthens your aura.
3. It increases your coordination.
The Hook-Up is one of the most powerful tools I know for quickly centering myself. It has immediate neurological consequences. Several of my students have reported using it with someone who has started to seizure and seen the seizure stop within 15 to 20 seconds.
To do the Hook-up, breath in deeply through your nose and out through your mouth (time—15 to 20 seconds):
1. Place the middle finger of one hand on your third eye (between your eye-brows above the bridge of your nose).
2. Place the middle finger of the other hand on your navel.
3. Gently press each finger into your skin, pull it upward, and hold for 15 to 20 seconds. Often a spontaneous sigh or deep breath signals the energies have been hooked up.”
See the breathwork and visualization below for another experiment she suggests to work with your third eye chakra. This is an awesome lady!
The third eye chakra vibrates to the color indigo. Indigo is one of my absolute favorite colors. The indigo pigment was derived from two of my favorite crystals—azurite and lapis lazuli. Indigo elevates your awareness to the spiritual—think midnight sky. “Contemplation and deep meditation come easier in the indigo depths of night. Night-time is often when inspirations and solutions to problems naturally arise.” ~ Healing with crystals and chakra energies, by Sue and Simon Lilly. Meditation helps develop your third-eye chakra—try meditation under the stars!
I talked about thinking outside the norm to allow for the possibility of magic in my opening section on magical portals. Indigo facilitates that movement from normal to magical. “Those using a lot of indigo energy are able to step away from how the world is usually seen and come up with new and startling ways of thinking.” ~ Healing with crystals and chakra energies, by Sue and Simon Lilly. Perhaps the use of indigo energy is where the phrase “out of the blue” comes from—kind of like my flash of intuitive insight for finding the book earlier.
So another way to stimulate the third-eye / brow chakra is to use put indigo in your life. Indigo will help you “develop sensitivity to the inner senses and intuition”. ~ Healing with crystals and chakra energies, by Sue and Simon Lilly.
My musings on the third eye chakra got me to thinking about magical night skies, “blue (indigo)”, and “moon (writing affirmations during the new moon)” which led me to wonder about the phrase “once in a blue moon”. “Modern interpretation of the term relates to absurdities and impossibilities; the phrase “once in a blue moon” refers to an event that will take place only at incredibly rare occasions”. http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Blue_moon. It is considered an “especially magic time”.
We’ve spent this newsletter immersed in the impossible becoming possible—magical portals. Use your third eye chakra to manifest magical moments that become your “norm” and multiply your “once in a blue moon” moments exponentially!
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“If you do not believe in magic, your life will not be magical. Magic, like the power of Stonehenge, is part of the unknowable—that which you cannot describe, but which exists and makes your life extraordinary.” –The Power Deck, The Cards of Wisdom, by Lynn V. Andrews.
Breathwork and Visualization:
The following is a continuation of the wisdom of Donna Eden from her Energy Medicine book:
“With your breath calm and deep, direct a question from your sixth chakra down to your root chakra. Let the question settle into the energy of your root chakra. Then call up the light so it moves back up to your sixth chakra, and be open for the answer to reveal itself as you pull up on your eyelid. (Refer to the Very simple exercise to begin opening your third eye explained in the Chakrascope section above.)
I’ve watched dozens of people be amazed when they have suddenly seen, known, or vividly felt an answer appear in front of them. While extended courses are offered in psychic development, experiment with this simple exercise from time to time and remain alert for what you see.”
Source: Energy Medicine by Donna Eden
Sources: The Chakra Energy Plan, The practical 7-step program to balance and revitalize, by Anna Selby.
The Book of Chakras, Discover the Hidden Forces Within You, by Ambika Wauters.
Awakening Third Eye Senses
Aromatherapy and the Brow / Third Eye Chakra: One of my favorite all time scents is a good one to stimulate this chakra—rose geranium! Others include: violet, lemongrass, sandalwood, cedarwood, and cajeput among others. “3 Wise Men” is a Young Living Essential Oil™ that also works to open the third eye.
If aromatherapy interests you, I use Young Living Essential Oils™ which are therapeutic, food-grade oils. Please inquire if you are interested in purchasing a favorite scent and I can add your request to my personal monthly order. Essential oils raise the vibrational frequency of the body. When the vibrational frequency of the body drops, we become more receptive to ill health: http://justalist.blogspot.com/2008/03/vibrational-frequency-list.html. Therapeutic-grade essential oils are great to have in your arsenal of health promoting natural products.
Gem therapy and the Brow / Third Eye Chakra: Gemstones amplify the energy when placed in contact with your chakras. For those of you unsure on this subject, consider that it’s scientifically proven that everything is energy. Nothing is really solid. Why wouldn’t the energy of a stone work effectively with the energy in our bodies just as some research speculates that the energy of computers, cell phones, and microwaves may affect our bodies? At the very least, I find that holding a favorite stone is like a talisman for me, or a “worry stone”. As my favorite author, Wayne Dyer, likes to say, “If it’s a placebo effect, I’ll take two”.
Some Brow / Third Eye Chakra gems are: Blue Sapphire—my birthstone—azurite, lapis lazuli, sodalite, kyanite, opal, amethyst, and blue tourmaline, among others. Listen to your inner voice when making your purchase! Placing your gemstones directly in the center of your forehead is a great way to heal this chakra.
If gem therapy interests you, you can find a great selection at www.crystallinelight.com or you can also link to her Web site from my links page at www.betterdayyoga.com. I’ve known Jennifer, the owner, for many years and love her products (and her)!
Yoga poses for the Brow / Third Eye Chakra: All yoga poses essentially activate the chakras. Some yoga poses to stimulate the third eye chakra include: If headstand is in your practice, this yoga pose stimulates the third eye chakra. You could also try half headstand.
Since I don’t cue headstand in my class, and due to a neck injury, refrain from practicing headstand, I’ve been using the nifty prop from Gaiam®: Yogacise Body Lift! It works great! http://www.gaiam.com/product/yogacise+body+lift.do
Yoga asanas and breathwork are practices to aid you in developing a meditation practice—which, as mentioned many times, stimulates the third chakra! Stilling the body enables you to journey to your inner magical realm.
Mudra means seal in Sanskrit. Its a symbolic or ritual gesture using primarily the hands. Each position is believed to have a specific effect. Specific positions can lead to specific states of consciousness symbolized by the hand positions. For example, if a person frequently and with feeling does a position of fearlessness, they will also be freed from fearfulness in time. Mudras are said to engage areas of the brain and/or soul influencing them, sometimes physically, by their usenot unlike an affirmation, or reflexology for that matter.
One way that all of us can better care for ourselves is by developing techniques for coping with the irritations and anxiety that are part of life
Think of these gestures as self-talk for your hands. These simple movements, the gestures that we often make unconsciously, can help us focus on our work, calm ourselves, release anger and energize us. Used for centuries by many different cultures, mudras are seen in Eastern dance and meditation, in ancient Egyptian friezes, even in Byzantine icons of Christ. Most of us use them today, too: we wave goodbye, we press a hand to our chest in distress, we wriggle our fingers to release energy, or press fingertips together to calm ourselves.
Easy to learn, mudras can be done anywhere, at any time: at traffic lights, in meetings, in airplanes, when were arguing, when were grieving, when we need to prepare for sleep. The word mudra can be translated from the Sanskrit as that which brings inner peace, and that s what mudras are: a physical means of quieting our bodies. Product description for Mudras: Ancient Gestures to Ease Modern Stress by Emily Fuller Williams.
A great video about mudras: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=e7-iXzMdfIs&feature=player_embedded#at=147
This newsletter has been all about magical portals and finding our own inner magical realm. This mudra reminds us that cosmic consciousness in all its forms manifests itself in everything and everyone around us, that we are connected with everything through our individual consciousness. ~ Mudras, Yoga in Your Hands, by Gertrud Hirschi.
To me, cosmic consciousness is being conscious of the magic. If it manifests all around us and we are connected to it, then we are never far from connecting to our inner magical realmour magic portal. We are all oneeven if we dont acknowledge the magical realm yet. Connecting to the cosmic consciousness, we are guided through our intuition, our third eye chakra highlighted earlier, and we are supported. When we share our insightsour intuitionwe are calling witnesses to our inner magic.
How to do Bhumisparsha Mudra:
Bhumisparsha means touching the earth and helps to calm the mind. I often use the phrase connecting heaven to earth when cueing a pose. I think yoga is vital to keeping us connected to both. We are the conduit in the middle. This mudra exemplifies that to me. The left hand, our yin or feminine-side hand, connects to the earthour mother. The right hand, our yang or masculine-side hand, connects to the skyour father. Connecting heaven to earth, we are guided, protected, supported, and upheld on our path in life as the affirmation so beautifully reminds us below.
Source: Mudras, Yoga in Your Hands, by Gertrud Hirschi
The following meditation and affirmation is also from the above source:
Simply look at an object or being (stone, plant, animal, etc.) While inhaling, absorb its energy, while exhaling, give it your energy. Each breath is like a band, and the connection becomes denser and denser until you merge with it. You can connect with cosmic consciousness in this way, and it will show you the path to eternal unity.
Affirmation: Connected with cosmic consciousness, I feel myself guided, protected, supported, and upheld on my path in life.
Scientific studies have shown that real relaxation and yoga nidra helps with a variety of physical and mental problems. It can boost your immune system, lower blood pressure, and decrease pain.
Here you’ll find some answers to frequently asked questions about Yoga Nidra compliments of Julie Lusk’s PDF referenced below.
What is Yoga Nidra?
Yoga Nidra is a powerful technique that yoga sages have been using for thousands of years. Yoga Nidra means “yogic sleep.” Yoga Nidra refers to a state of consciousness and not to a particular technique. It’s a state of conscious deep sleep that goes far beyond deep relaxation to a place of intrinsic peace and quiet. It’s a glorious place where awareness remains yet the thinking mind withdraws. What’s experienced is awareness without words, thoughts, images, feelings and other sensations.
It’s where our innate wisdom, intelligence and intuition naturally reside.
Is Yoga Nidra different from meditation and hypnosis?
Yes. In meditation, we stay awake and notice, observe and remain undisturbed when thoughts, words, feelings, beliefs, and images appear and disappear. In hypnosis, we’re in a brain wave state that is not as deep as in yoga nidra. With hypnosis, someone else makes suggestions to us in this altered state. In Yoga Nidra, positive suggestions originate and come from within ourselves for lasting and constructive change. This is called setting a resolve, or sankalpa.
What are the benefits of Yoga Nidra?
With regular practice, your health will undoubtedly improve. Scientific studies have shown that real relaxation and yoga nidra helps with a variety of physical and mental problems. It can boost your immune system, lower blood pressure, and decrease pain. Though it’s not a substitute for sleeping, one hour of yoga nidra equals about 4 hours of typical sleep because the brain wave state we’re in is extremely restful and relaxing. You’ll enjoy living with a clear head. Eventually, mood swings and emotional upsets won’t bother you. Your creativity and intuition will flourish in a positive and productive way. Plus, your energy increases.
How is Yoga Nidra Done?
During our process of Yoga Nidra, you’ll be invited to get comfortable lying down on a yoga mat or something similar. Feel free to use a cover for warmth and pillows under your head and knees for comfort. Then, you’ll mentally follow your breath for a while. This helps you relax and clear your mind of restlessness. Next, we’ll take a conscious tour through the body. This technique is called “rotation of consciousness.” The map being used corresponds to the motor cortex in the brain. Refer to the diagram below. Using this body map strengthens all the brain/body connections and influences the brain itself. It’s been recommended to always use the same map each time Yoga Nidra is practiced. From here, we’ll use another special breathing technique that further balances your body, mind, and spirit.” http://wholesomeresources.com/pdfs/Yoga_nidra_FAQ_Julie_Lusk.pdf
Read the full PDF, see the featured CD below, and visit Julie Lusk’s website (http://wholesomeresources.com/details-real-relaxation-cd/) for more luscious information on Yoga Nidra! Also, see the “Meditation On The Go” and Featured CD section of this newsletter for more on Yoga Nidra! For more articles on Yoga Nidra Research go to : http://www.amrityoga.org/yn-research.htm
One of my dearest friends cooks, bakes, and grills like a professional chef. She loves to chop vegetables, says things like “ramekins” and has her own tablecloth named after her—The Christine—for purchase at The Palate in Stockholm, WI: http://www.thepalate.net/. Preparing food has been her passion since before my husband and I met Christine and her husband, Mark, over 15 years ago. It has been our good fortune to be the lucky recipients of many delicious meals and absolutely wonderful times in their home. Since I am all about following our passion, this is my way of letting her have an outlet for hers. Enjoy!
I have to say when Christine sent this recipe to me, it brought a tear to my eye. I haven’t had my mom’s cabbage rolls—better known to Poles as gołąbki (gaw-WOHMP-kee)—since she passed away close to 25 years ago. This newsletter is all about magical portals. I’m fairly certain that every mom puts a little magic in their special recipes. I know my mom did. My friend, Christine, has the magic touch in everything she makes—and THAT is the voice of experience talking! Enjoy!
“The old saying, “everyone is Irish on St. Patrick’s Day”, is definitely true when it comes to enjoying St. Patrick’s Day foods. And the foods most associated with this celebration – cabbage, potatoes and root vegetables, are packed with powerful nutrients.
Cabbage, for one, is not only chock-full of anti-cancer fighting chemicals and antioxidants, but can lower cholesterol and promote good bacteria in the digestive tract. Top that off with a healthy dose of vitamin C and K and you have one powerful “ball” of nutrition.
There are over 400 varieties of cabbage, but the most often seen are Napa, Red, Savoy and Common (green). The colors can range from deep green to a deep reddish purple. The deeper the color, the greater the nutritional value.
A head of cabbage is a self-contained package that you can store in your vegetable bin, uncut, for about a month. Peel away the outer leaves that yellow or lose their crunch. Once cut, wrap tightly in plastic wrap then store in a plastic bag and eat within a few weeks.” http://wordenfarm.wordpress.com/2012/03/13/eat-cabbage-for-luck-and-good-nutrition/
In Ireland cabbage is considered good luck because it is green and resembles money. Eat Cabbage for luck and nutrition. They are a sign of good luck at New Year—so why not St Patrick’s Day too!
Here is a recipe that will bring a pot of gold at the end of your rainbow.
1 head of cabbage
1 cup cooked rice. Can be white or brown
1 lb ground beef (You can use any ground meat such as chicken, turkey, lamb or pork)
1 small onion diced
2 cloves of garlic finely chopped
1 egg slightly beaten
Salt and pepper to taste
1 can condensed tomato soup
1 14 oz. can chopped tomatoes
Assembling the cabbage rolls:
This month I suggested using Final Relaxation / Savasana as your magic portalopening to the magic available to you when you find deep relaxation. In the Meditation On The Go section, I highlighted Yoga Nidra / Yogic Sleep as a way to take Savasana further and I mentioned Julie Lusks Yoga Nidra CD, Real Relaxation, highlighted here. In the “Healthy News” section you’ll find some answers to frequently asked questions about Yoga Nidra compliments of Julie Lusk’s PDF referenced there, along with a link to the full PDF.
I have used many of Julie Lusks resources! I have been teaching for four years. In all that time, the one final relaxation meditation that has consistently been remembered and re-requested by many of my students as their all time favorite meditation is Julie Lusks The Pond of Love from her Yoga Meditations book as well as from her 30 Scripts for Relaxation, Imagery & Inner Healing – Vol. 2. I’ve had more than one student comment that they “go back there often” in their minds.
Heres a brief description of this magical meditation:
Pond of Love
“In this script, participants sit beside an imaginary pond that radiates love. Endless
variations can be created by substituting different characteristics and virtues
radiating from the pond. For instance, the pond may be full of peace,
understanding, or forgiveness. You may also want to let participants choose the
characteristics on their own.
Though its not a substitute for sleeping, one hour of yoga nidra equals about 4 hours of typical sleep because the brain wave state were in is extremely restful and relaxing. http://wholesomeresources.com/pdfs/Yoga_nidra_FAQ_Julie_Lusk.pdf (Great PDF for finding out more about Yoga Nidra!)
Your body needs this type of relaxation! Practice yoga nidra often!
This CD takes you into a deeply relaxing and powerful state of being fully aware while being in the state of deep sleep.
Its many benefits include:
About the author: Julie has dedicated her efforts to helping others attain stress relief, wellness and holistic health through yoga, meditation and guided imagery.
Julie has a Masters in Education from Virginia Tech. She is a National Certified Counselor and Registered/Certified Yoga Teacher. Julie was a Licensed Professional Counselor in Virginia for 20 years.
Julie has taught yoga since 1977 and is certified to teach a variety of styles ranging from gentle to vigorous yoga. Yoga Alliance awarded her the highest credential available. She teaches locally, nationally and is a teacher trainer.
Her previous careers include Regional Director, Mercy Holistic Health and Wellness Centers (Cincinnati, OH), Assistant Dean of Students of Roanoke College (Salem, VA) and Director of Health Management, Lewis-Gale Clinic (Salem, VA).
Julies volunteer efforts in community health promotion earned recognition from the US Surgeon General and the Governor of Virginia.
You can hear the full CD during one of my future yoga nidra classes, or purchase it for your own listening pleasure at:
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